We often refer to the Forest Service as a family. Sometimes we even use a play on words and describe the team in WO-Fire and Aviation Management as a “FAMily.” And during the last few weeks, WO-FAM employees, people across the agency and individuals around the world have come together like a true family to support one another as we mourn the loss of Stephen Nelson, assistant director for fire information management. 

Last week, we honored Stephen at a flag-raising ceremony at the National Interagency Fire Center in Boise, Idaho. The American flag was flown over the Yates Building and then over NIFC before being presented to Stephen’s widow, Tracie, by the Honor Guard.

Those of you who knew Stephen know that he worked hard, believed in his employees and loved the Forest Service. His positive outlook on life, before and despite his cancer diagnosis, touched too many people to mention. Stephen could always be counted on for his dry wit, contagious smile and glint in his eye as he “proceeded until apprehended.” Wherever he went, he left a lasting impression. Whether Stephen came into your life for a few minutes, a few hours, countless days or several years, you knew he had touched your life forever.

Stephen began his career in 1982 in the U.S. Marine Corps, where he served for four years. As a COBOL programmer, he wrote the program to pay Marines’ salaries, a system they still use today. Stephen spent 20 years in the private sector before joining the Forest Service in 2009 as an information technology specialist for the Enterprise Operation Center. He joined the WO-Fire and Aviation Management staff in December 2019 as the information management branch chief. Stephen served as the assistant director for information management until he passed away after a two-year battle with cancer.

Last month, WO Fire and Aviation Management held a celebration of life to honor Stephen. Employees, family and friends remembered him and his accomplishments. Many people learned something new about him—phrases he loved to use, his unwavering support for employees and the love he shared with his wife, Tracie, and their children and grandchildren. If you were unable to attend this heartfelt tribute, you can watch Stephen's video played at the online celebration of life or view the PowerPoint presentation from that event.

Those who knew Stephen continue to remember and miss him. For anyone suffering such a loss, give yourself grace when you are struggling, reach out for help when you need it, and acknowledge your grief as it ebbs and flows. And, as Stephen would say, “Remember to speak softly and carry a big stick. Unless you can ride a dinosaur, then do that.”